There is such a diversity in the spectrum of age, income, personality, ethnicity, the social tribes and any other surface differences. The commonality between them all is this, people that gravitate towards this are cool.

Without exception.

I can’t say it any other way. You felt the need for relief and satisfaction and you were bold enough to take matters into your own hands and that brought you to me. Bravo.

It depends on the connection I have with you.

The connections I get to make in this part of my life are both fascinating and complex. Sessions may be playful and sensual, a sweet escape from your routine life, but also can be dark and unexpected, challenging aspects of your existence you might otherwise avoid. I don’t take the importance of trust and discretion in my relationships lightly. I seek deep-rooted connections that take different paths based on a foundation of mutual trust and respect. In my mind a session doesn’t end when the time is up, the fantasies and activities continue silently within after.

Yes. I don’t take the importance of this lightly. Everybody has different reasons to be discreet and I respect that. There is no need for further explanation and if you don’t want me to know anything about who you are or what you do outside of this world, I am fine with that. This is about you and me, I do everything to protect that, nobody else has any business in this. As I respect your privacy, I demand you to be discreet about my persona as well. The setting of my sessions is private and discreet (unless specifically requested otherwise, in which we will also discuss my limits). I follow strict communication protocols and will adhere to any further specific requests you might have to protect your absolute privacy.

Yes. I do tour other cities in the US regularly and visit Europe 2-3 times a year. Watch my social media to follow updates.

In terms of coming to you beyond the Tristate area, this is possible and will need to be discussed in detail before.

Please don’t buy me flowers. I like books about history, investment, business and psychology. A good old fiction will do it too.

Cash is appreciated. You can tribute to my Cash App $AngelaF9716 or Venmo @F-M1997.

You can ask me for a list of charities I like to support.

Support one of my projects and make a purchase at my favorite kink shop  kinkybd.com 

Yes, everyone gets the chance to do a brief consultation before a session to discuss fantasies, limits and goals.

Yes, happy to speak the languages I listed. For example, I see some people who speak to me in Yiddish and I answer in German. You can get a thrill out of not clearly understanding my instructions due to the language barrier.

I wrote a blog post about this. I enjoy the inner silence I find in myself being connected to someone.

There are definitely mental and physical preparation that will increase your chances of having your best session.

Consider what places you want to go mentally and physically in your session.

Getting your body ready can involve prep work including but not limited to:
•internal/external cleaning
•hygiene
•fasting
•stretching/dilator
•hair removal/shaving
•hot/cold exposure
•get hydrated
•plan after care

Getting your mind ready for your session is always possible no matter what external chaos you are experiencing.

It can still feel daunting, as the session is often a means of regulating your emotions during hectic times.

So the self control doesn’t happen before the session but you need self control to compose yourself and get the best possible reaction from both yourself and your dominant.

This can be frustrating.

My best advice to you is to remind yourself of why you came to see your dominant.Remind yourself of both the build up before and the release afterwards. Remind yourself of what you are looking for and let the at banish all the distractions and intrusive thoughts that may spoil our time together.

No. I don’t like to share myself in a platonic way with a crowd of unknown people. You can check out my special offerings, it will cover what you get from these sites, such as content creation and communication outside of a session, with a more individual approach dedicated to your fetishes and fantasies.